Izinto osichazele zona zenze kwakho zonke iintlobo zezinto ezintsha kwindlela yokubuka iindwendwe. Kwaye ngento ethi Ukuyifumana Kuqala, ungaqala ukuzisebenzisa namhlanje.
Ngoku zonke izixhobo zokubeka amaxabiso zikwikhalenda—ukuze kube lula ukuseta uze ulungise amaxabiso akho kwindawo enye. Ngokwahlulahlulwa kwexabiso okulungisiweyo, uza kukwazi nokubona ixabiso elipheleleyo leendwendwe nemali oza kuyifumana.
Okokuqala embalini, unokuthelekisa ixabiso lakho nomyinge wexabiso lezindlu ezifana neyakho ezibhukishiweyo ezikufuphi—nto leyo ekwenza uhlale ukhuphisana kakuhle kakhulu.
Ngoku kwikhalenda, unokuswayipha ukuze ukhethe iintsuku kwifowuni yakho—iphelile into yokuba kufuneke ucofe usuku ngalunye. Kwaye into ezayo kungekudala kukuba, ungakwazi ukufumana ushwankathelo lweenyanga eziyi-12 usebenzisa into entsha yokukwazi ukubona unyaka wonke.
Khawuleza ufake imiyalelo eqhelekileyo yokuphuma kwindlu yakho, uze ufake izicelo ezikhethekileyo. Iindwendwe ziza kukhunjuzwa ngezinto ezimele zizenze ngaphambi kokuba zihambe, ibe zinokucofa ukuze zikwazise xa ziphumile.
Wena neendwendwe zakho nobabini niza kufumana umyalezo xa umyalezo ufundiwe uza kwazi ukuba umyalezo uboniwe. Ngaphezu koko, ngoku unokuthumela imiyalelo yokuphuma ngokukhawuleza ngeempendulo ezintsha ezikhawulezayo.
Kulula ukumema Abantu Abancedisayo abatsha ibe ungabeka iimvume Zabantu Abancedisayo ngokucofa nje—ukhethe iimvume ezipheleleyo, ikhalenda nemiyalezo, okanye ikhalenda kuphela. Kwakhona unokwazi ukulungisa uze wahlulelane ngemali oyibhatelweyo Nomntu Okuncedisayo.
Into entsha ekusebenziseni amagumbi okulala—Ukumazi Umbuki Zindwendwe kunceda iindwendwe zikwazi ngcono ngaphambi kokuba zibhukishe, nezinto zokukhangela eziphucula indlu yakho.